2016 in Review and Goals for 2017

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Got your kick ass shoes ready for 2017?

Overall, I’d say 2016 was a good year. It had its ups and downs, but I can honestly say that my life is moving in a positive direction. It has been a year of intense growth. I can look back on it without any sadness or regret. In my book, that’s a success.

Things I accomplished this year:

  • For the first time I have medical insurance and a 401k… how freakishly adult is that?!
  • I became a licensed claims adjuster. I even have a certificate to prove it.
  • I’ve been to New Orleans, Arizona, and I saw the Grand Canyon, I ate tons of good food, and saw some great art.
  • I have a good job (even if it is a lot of work), AND I haven’t been fired.
  • I am surrounded by good people.
  • I’m getting stronger. I know it because I’m able to be more open with people. I’m less afraid to loose those that I care about. I’m realizing that if someone is meant to be in my life, they will be. This is true regardless of any stupid mistakes I make.
  • Although I have always HATED the phrase “you have to love yourself before anyone else will,” I am slowly starting to do that. Just in case you are wondering how I attempt such a feat, I make it a conscious effort to ask myself “what would a person who loves herself do?” when I am faced with choices. It is a habit I am trying to ingrain into my thought process.

For the upcoming year, I have some new things I’d like to accomplish:

  • Proficiency and competence in my job. I like to feel confident that I can handle things and that I know what I’m doing. Right now I’m kind of winging it. I take it day by day.
  • As for my travel goals, I’d like to visit somewhere I’ve never been. If I make this a goal year after year, I think I shall become quite worldly.
  • I plan to finally buy a car. I’ve been holding it off for a very long time because of the expense and responsibility,  but it’s not easy living in America without transportation. It’s time for me to suck it up, and get with the program. I’m hoping that the freedom having a car gives me will be worth the expense.
  • I’d like to get rid of Diet Coke from my life (and aspartame in general). I am addicted to the stuff, and I know it’s not healthy. Once upon a time I did kick my nasty habit. I did it for about two years… then my divorce happened and things went to shit. On the good side, it’s not crack. Crack I reserve for the weekend when Satan and have our knitting session. We knit, we gossip, we do some lines. It’s how we roll. Hey … kidding … I don’t even know how to knit 😜.
  • Financially I have an idea of how much I’d like to have stowed away in the bank… but you know … life.
  • I’d love to get to 120 pounds. I’ve never been able to reach that goal. Well maybe somewhere in my lifetime I was 120 pounds for one day, but can you believe that I never knew which day that was? Maybe I was 12?!? Being a foodie and maintaining a fabulous figure … no. One Levain cookie and I’m popping out of my jeans like a can of Pillsbury dough when the tab is pulled.
  • I wouldn’t be honest if I didn’t admit that I’d like to find love too. It’s not a goal, so much as it is a wish. It will come when the time is right, but it would be the best thing ever if it happened sooner rather than later.

I’m going to be ringing in the new year alone. I wish it could be otherwise, but it is what it is. I doubt I’ll stay up till midnight, but if I do, I will blow you all a kiss.  I’d like to wish you a very Happy New Year. I send you lots of love and good wishes for 2017.

20 Comments

  1. I ❤ your lists. But especially the one where you see your progress. Lurve that one most of all. And hey, I can knit! Go me! Teach ya so you won’t feel so left out during those crack smokin’ seshes with the horned one 😉

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  2. A very happy and productive New Year(s) to you my lovely.
    I am home alone, and the year will come in without me waiting up for her. She knows the way.
    And yay to recognising that you have made huge progress. I need some lessons on the self-love caper though. Or even just to be kind to myself.
    Hugs.

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  3. I’ll be alone too. On the drive home from the beach house last night I could feel it coming on, whatever it is… feels like someone is standing on my chest, horrible cough (fingers crossed it’s not pneumonia). Today much the same with added aches and pains and headache. It seems I just got over a two week head cold. What gives? I guess I ran myself ragged. The rest of the family including the Princess (their last night in town) will be out for a lovely dinner. Too sick to even bake. I’ll probably sleep right through! ☚ī¸ Cheers to 2017! When do you leave for NYC? ✈ī¸đŸ—Ŋ🏙đŸĒ💖

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    1. Whatever it is my mother has it too, with a terrible cough that seems to echo. She can’t stay awake — maybe because she spends all night coughing. BE won’t be around?
      I leave to NYC thurs morning, returning Mon.
      It looks like so many of us are on our own this year. It shows you that being alone is not actually a unique experience. We are alone together. I love that thought. It’s time likes this I wish we lived a little closer. We could hang out in pajamas and watch movies and stuff 😊 — I’ll just have to wear one of those silly medical masks LOL. I can bedazzle it for New Years 😜.
      ❤❤❤

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